Recognizing Their Battle Within
They recognized their inability to say no to others and battled within with their inability to change it. When their partner drew restrictions for them, they got frustrated with being prevented from doing what they thought they should be doing. Why are they controlling me? I should be helping wherever I can. If I don’t prove my worth, people will stop noticing me. They continuously wondered why the situation kept happening and couldn’t bring their self to change due to the guilt they felt for not being good enough. They could easily blame their partner for being controlling, yet something about it also drew them to do less for others and take care of their self. They couldn’t shake their pattern of easily serving but they didn’t know how to accept the care they were openly offered.
In life, people and situations in our lives serve our needs without us realizing it. Due to what we focus on and the subconscious thoughts we hold, we tend to miss the care that’s being offered to us and rationalize against it, building confused frustration that is caused by unresolved issues within us. When we’re easily triggered by a reoccurring situation, it’s time to uncover underlying issues we’ve avoided previously, face them to be our true self and recognize that we are loved as we are.
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