“If you want to have growth to show; you must give it time to grow. ”
There are various ways for a person to grow, even the choice of acceptance or letting go. Personal growth is never just about the lessons that are handed to a person, it is about what they choose to do with the lessons and how they wish for it to accentuate their person. A strong concentration on a single life event will not guarantee comprehension or enhance its uses for a person. It is up to our person to acknowledge the uses and find a place for it within our person.
With every life lesson, a person will always strive to reach acceptance and all that is needed to reach it is their willingness to give themselves the time and space to internalize the situation. A place of serenity would be beneficial to reflect and allow it all to become a reality. With a tranquil mind, the layers of reality are easily unraveled and become clear to view.
Acceptance occurs when a person recognizes the purpose of a situation and acknowledges its place in their life. The moment may have felt ugly and unbearable but, by being open, the intent of the event will flourish and be recognized. Find a purpose for every event in life and respect the function it offers.
When willing to consent a purpose, a confidence will be built towards the benefits of the occurrence. With this assurance, a positive light will endorse the situation and lift the negativities away. Through acceptance and the sense of purpose, letting go will become easier because it will no longer remain a memory overwhelmed with negative emotion. Letting go is simpler when we have a positive light to depend on.
Despite the goal to accept and let go, time and space will always be needed to nourish the lesson. A person may not come into realization right away but it won’t mean that the gift is lost to them. It will be up to them to nurture their person and find their light. If you want your person to have growth to show, you must be willing to provide yourself room to grow.